How to Attract the Guy You Have a Crush On

1.Make sure they know who you are.
2.Find Common Ground
3.Befriend him.
4.Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable.
5.Try to Keep Clean.
6.Be yourself.
7.Be clear on your intentions.

Tips:
1.Don't be easy. Not impressive, and it'll give you a bad reputation, try to be yourself and be open towards your feelings.
2.If you are going to make a joke, make sure it's funny and not cheesy. Try to make it on a subject he will be interested in and he will laugh at.
3.If you make a lame joke and he laughs, he is probably interested in you. No one who is interested in someone wants to risk insulting them.
4.Laugh at his jokes, but don't overdo it; no one likes a gigling ninnie. When you laugh he will look at you, so don't try and seem fake or too flirty.
5.Be friendly! Remember to be positive and ask him simple questions like how he's doing, and take an interest in what he says.
6.When he makes a joke, don't slap him, just lightly touch his arm when you laugh. Depending on the guy, he will probably get closer to you.
7.Slutiness is not empowering. As mentioned above, wear clothes that make you comfortable, not clothes that your momma would slap you upside the head for.
8.Try to make eye contact. If you're ultra shy, it's okay, but eye contact shows that you are feeling very open and comfortable. Staring at someone, however, connotates that you are a stalker.
9.Try not to flirt with other guys around him. Jealousy does not a good feeling make. It might lower his self esteem and interest in you depending on the guy. But then again, other guys might try to meet the challenge; overall, though, making someone jealous isn't a good thing.
10.Send him a friend request on Facebook or Myspace. Trust me, this might work. I added my crush, and now we talk for hours.
11.Social networking sites like Facebook are great, because you have longer to think about what you say, and if you don't like what you've written, you can type something else.

How to Attract Girls?

1.) GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS
2.) GET SELF-CONFIDENCE
3.) POSITIVE OUTLOOK
4.) PRACTICE PERSONAL HYGIENE

How to Be Cool?

Steps
Act like you do not care what others think of you.
Be aware of how others will perceive you.
Present yourself in a positive way.
Find real friends.
Don't be afraid to be different.
Speak up.
Learn how to laugh at yourself.
Write a list of all of the goals you are aiming for.
Take a deep breath.
Be friendly, but not excessively eager.
Use appropriate language.
Be a good conversationalist.
Dress how you want.
Refrain from using too many colloquialisms.

TIPS ON BEING A RESPONSIBLE HOST

If you're hosting a party, you certainly want to be a responsible host. This means paying attention to many details, and insuring that all goes according to your plans. Here are several suggestions:
Remember how important it is to plan things carefully!
Alcohol, if served, should not be a major focus of the event. Consider a theme party; play non-drinking games.
Make sure that you know the facts about alcohol about drinking and driving about your liabilities as a host if one of your guests gets injured at your party (or after your party) about dealing with drunk individuals. There's lots to know -ask if you don't know!
Keep an eye on your guests - to insure that they're having a good time, and to be sure that no behavior gets out of control.
It you're serving an alcoholic punch, use non-carbonated beverages in it; this helps slow the absorption rate of alcohol.
It you're serving alcohol, be sure to serve attractive non-alcoholic alternative beverages. Non-alcoholic punch recipes are availble at the Drug Education Center.
Serve some tasty food - this doesn't have to expensive! This helps slow the absorption rate of the alcohol.
Respect guests who don't want to drink, or have decided to slow down or stop for the evening.
Measure your drinks - this keeps guests' behavior in line, and limits the amount of your alcohol that is consumed!
Stay sober yourself - you never know when you'll have to be in charge of dealing with an emergency!
Serve an alternative beverage such as coffee an hour or so before the party ends. Realize that this does not help someone sober up, but it does allow for time to pass before they leave.
Take special note of your guests who will be driving home. Make sure that they stay sober enough to drive safely-, encourage them to stop drinking early.
When it's time to leave, be sure that the drivers can drive safely. If not, find someone else to drive, play the game "find the car keys" with them, call a taxi, or find them a place to stay. You certainly don't want to have to wonder whether or not they made it home OK!
Clean up the area where the party was held -- outside the facility is very important!
You can certainly think of more tips from your experience - share these with your friends, and ask them for their suggestions as you plan your party!