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Monday, June 29, 2009

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Thursday, June 25, 2009

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Sunday, June 14, 2009

Secondhand Serenade » I Hate This Song Lyrics


Speak with your tongue tied,
I know that you're tired
But I just want to know,
Where you want to go,
I may be sad, But I'm not weak,
This situation is bleak
And you puffy eyes never lie,
Your tears come from inside.

Until Sunday I'll be waiting for an answer
I guess that yesterday's not good enough for you,
You know that I hate this song,
You know that I hate this song
Because it was written for you

Drown your fears with me
I'm feeling real sorry
Your glossy eyes don't need
The sadness they have seen
But you're way too deep to swim
Back up again
But somehow I can't find
The moment you said goodbye

Until Sunday I'll be waiting for an answer
I guess that yesterday's not good enough for you,
You know that I hate this song,
You know that I hate this song
Because it was written for you

This is becoming a problem I'm hurting it's unfair
But somehow your words,
The way that I heard are haunting me,
You're under my skin
You're breaking in,
And the tasteless fights that filled our nights
Are starting to cave in,
You're under my skin
You're breaking in
And if Sundays what it takes to prove
I have nothing else to loose

Until Sunday I'll be waiting for an answer
I guess that yesturday's not good enough for you,
You know that I hate this song,
You know that I hate this song
Because it was written for you

Secondhand Serenade Stranger lyrics

Turn Around
Turn Around and fix your eye in my direction
So there is a connection
I can't speak
I can't make a sound to somehow capture your attention
I'm staring at perfection
Take a look at me so you can see
How nice you are

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
But all these thoughts are leaving you tonight
I'm broke and abandoned
You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

I'm confident
But I can't pretend I wasn't terrified to meet you
I knew you could see right through me
I saw my life flash right before my very eyes
And I knew just what we'd turn into
I was hoping that you could see
Take a look at me so you can see

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
But all these thoughts are leaving you tonight
I'm broke and abandoned
You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

I know that I can't make you stay
But I would give my final breathe to make you understand how nice you are
Understand how nice you are

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
But all these thoughts are leaving you tonight
I'm broke and abandoned
You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
You call me a stranger

How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Friend


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Step 1

Talk to your friend. Open communication is the best way to start. Tell your friend that it is important that the two of you don't get feelings for one another, because you want the friendship to last.
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Step 2

Agree that you will not become romantically involved with each other and/or fall for each other. It is best when both friends agree not to get involved. Otherwise, one friend may start liking the other romantically, not knowing that the other friend is not okay with these type of feelings developing.
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Step 3

Set parameters with the friendship. Agree what can and can't be expected of the other person. You might want to come to an understanding that the friendship will be limited to hanging out at open mic nights and jamming, or playing chess. You won't spend every evening together, for example. Setting parameters can help you from getting together all the time, which makes it easier for feelings to develop.
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Step 4

Set boundaries. Don't sit too close to each other when you go to the movies. Don't allow the friend to sleep over. Don't hold hands, even if it's just for fun.
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Step 5

Do not become intimate. If you do, you're just asking for trouble. The easiest way for some people to get feelings for someone is with intimacy (sex). This is a line you should never cross, even if you think you can both handle it.
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Step 6

Don't kiss. You may think that as long as you don't become intimate and have actual sex that you can avoid developing feelings for someone and falling in love with your friend. However, even a passionate kiss can trigger those feelings that you are trying to avoid.
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Step 7

If you do start to have feelings for your friend, take a few steps back. Put some distance in the relationship. Sometimes then you will be able to get the feelings to dissipate. If not, you may have to talk to your friend and figure out what to do. It might be that a blunt blow of reality from the friend reminding you that you are only friends and it will be no more can bring you back from Cloud 9.

I took this pictures early in the morning...:)



Hmm...Bright & half moon...Nothing really special about this day.
It's just that I'm really bored.It's better if you'll look into the dark sky with sparkling stars,isn't?

Sunday, June 7, 2009

How to Forget About a Girl You Like

1. Stick with your decision! At this point you are comitting to do one thing only... leaving the possibility of a relationship behind. If you cannot fully commit to your decision you will continually be re-establishing emotional feelings (the cause of your thoughts). You must agree with this decision! If not, then you are not ready.
2. Limit your interaction with this person. Although you have feelings for this person, giving yourself time and distance away from this person will cause you to have less interactions and less thoughts. Giving yourself at least one week of minimal interaction is necessary but this varies from person to person. This WILL be difficult.
3. Find a replacement. Your thoughts must happen. You cannot simply take away thoughts and have a day without them filled with moments of you sitting in a deep daze. It is the brain's function to think and a thought can ONLY BE REPLACED! You need to find a new hobby to fill this new void. The best thing to do is to get out with some friends while obeying step 2. Friends also have full lives and when their interactions mix with yours, you find yourself listening and learning many new things and ideas.
4. Do something! Again, follow step 3. If you are in a room with only a chair you have nothing else to do but think. But if you're on the move you think about your actions, so do something.
5. Relax and try to have fun. If you picked an activity that is highly stressful, chances are that you are going to return to your "safe place" and recall your thoughts. Always remind yourself that you are moving forward and becoming happier.


TIPS:
* Give yourself plenty of time. It can be a very long period
* Remember that you are not alone. Many people have experienced similar emotions and have pulled through.
* If you were in a relationship with this person, do what you need to clear any images or objects that will remind you of this person. Pack them in a box, put them under your bed, hide them in a shoe box in your closet, or put them in the trash. Think of something creative.
* Do not tell anyone WHO you like. Never give names. Talking to people about your crush increases your chances of your crush hearing about it. This definitely breaks step 1. However, talking about your difficulties is always good but you don't want anyone to figure out who you are talking about. Just use the phase "this girl I know" instead of her name.
* If your crush has a boyfriend... get to know him. There is a good chance that you two will have something in common since you like the same girl. This can help a lot. Because when he opens up to you about his girlfriend you will listen. This helps two-fold because: 1) You create a stronger friendship with this new guy and 2) you get to vent and hear all your thoughts come into action. You may even be able to give him suggestions (if he is comfortable). In any manner, as long as you see her rarely, you complete all the steps.
* Its good to remember that you cannot see the future. Even if you broke step 1 and went for the girl there is a good chance that the relationship may never even work. At this point in time it is much better to keep your memories of your and her happiness as they are now. If things failed, you could have some miserable memories and it may just be better pretending that it would have been great. (Think about it) If the Woman you were once interested in marries another man and not you then have no further interaction with her even in a friendly way. Completely shut her out of your thoughts and move on with your life there will be another woman and eventually you will find happiness and have a meaningful relationship.
* Always be careful about what activities you choose to help distract yourself. Things like sports or crafts are always good. Try to find something with maximum interaction with other people. Conversation helps to distract you, as long as you stay away form the topic of your love interests, otherwise it is pointless. Sports like golf or tennis aren't very helpful - you spend too much time not talking, and it can allow your mind to start wondering.
* Try to think of it this way, this girl is sorta ruining your life. This happened to me, but then I got a replacement for this. I was a much happier person. Also if that doesn't work then think that the girl is a truck in your life and you are a person in front, what will you do to stay alive, get away from the truck, so to substitute it The girl is the truck and the you are the person, move away from her, be strong. You made the decision. Stick to your guns!
* For Catholics set up an appointment with your parish priest and discuss the issue with him just because he's a priest he was once a young man. And he went through some of the same things so he understands what it's like when relationships with women go wrong and he can give you advice. Or discuss it with a minister of your choice a rabbi once helped me when my childhood sweet heart decided another man was better than me.

WARNINGS:
* If you feel that you cannot do this on your own or are feeling very depressed call a friend at 1-800-784-2433 or 1-800-448-3000. Don't be scared! Call them up and just tell them "THIS SUCKS!" They like it! If you haven't had a random conversation with a stranger, this will be fun and will definitely fulfill step 4 and possibly save a life.
* Never resort to alcohol as a way to help ease the pain of rejection sure it may feel good in the short term but in the long run it can and will harm your health ,and lead to an abundance of problems it can even get you thrown into jail. Get professional help if necessary.

How To Forget Someone in 8 Steps

Step 1:

Cry out everything you have to cry about! When we get hurt, it's normal (and good) to cry. Don't ever think you're being weak for crying and don't feel embarrassed because of it! It's normal and it's good! When you cry, you let go of part of your anger and hurt so you can feel less heavy. You can lock yourself in a room, if you want to, and put on some sad music...but let yourself feel the pain and cry so you can let it go. The main thing here is: Get rid of the pain! Just let her go!

Step 2:

Get busy! When you're trying to get someone out of your head, you need to put other things inside of it. In other words...get busy! It doesn't matter how, you just need to get distracted. Go to a movie, watch a play, travel. It doesn't matter what are you going to do--the important thing is to find something to do. Find a hobby, find something you enjoy doing, something to keep your mind busy. If your mind is busy, it doesn't have time or space to think about the person you're trying to forget.

Step 3:

Spend some time with your friends. Friends are always great to have in this kind of situation! Friends can make you feel good about yourself and get you distracted very easily. They will certainly make you laugh and make you see that you're way more important than you think! The only warning is: Ask them not to talk about the person you're trying to forget. If they start bringing the topic up in every conversation, you won't be able to forget, and instead of making you laugh, they're going to make you cry. So be honest and ask them not to talk about it!

Step 4:

Avoid the person! Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person. When you're trying to forget someone and you two keep seeing each other, it gets hard to get over it. If you meet him/her somewhere, just be nice and kind, but find an excuse to go away as fast as you can! If you work or study with him/her and you can't avoid seeing him/her, just try not to look and not to talk too much. Just be gentle and keep busy all the time so you won't have excuses to look at him/her or to chat.

Step 5:

Go out and see some different faces! Being at home gives you more time to think about it, which makes the process even more difficult. So even if you're not feeling excited or you're in a bad mood, just put on your best clothes, best shoes, best smile, call some friends and go somewhere nice where you can dance, drink, listen to some music. And the most important: See some different faces! When you go out, you notice that the person you're trying to forget is not the only one who's got a perfect smile and an amazing voice...thank god, there are other interesting people around the world, too!

Step 6:

Avoid every kind of romantic thing! If you're trying to forget someone, you'd better not watch romantic movies or listen to romantic songs...it makes you feel bad and you will certainly remember the person you're trying to get rid of. It doesn't matter if it's a song you love or if it's playing on the radio...just change the station or do something else! Put on some happy songs, dancing songs, watch some comedies, terror movies, whatever...you just need to avoid the romantic things for now!

Step 7:

Take good care of yourself. Women tend to run for some kind of self-destruction when they're hurt. If we break up our perfect relationship, then we have no reason to get our nails done anymore and the only thing that gives us comfort is chocolate and sugar. That way, the only thing we do is to become less attractive and lessen our self-confidence. So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot, get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can feel more pretty and confident!

Step 8:

Accept the process! You can be really strong and it's still going to hurt. The process takes time and you have to accept that! You can't hope to forget in 2 days someone you loved for 2 years...and you can't pretend to be strong if you feel like crying. Just face your pain and accept that it's not easy and it's going to take some time. When you're patient with yourself and your situation, things tend to get easier...

Well, of course, forgetting someone is not easy to do nor is it easily explained in just 8 steps. But there are some things that make the process a lot smoother. As I said, it takes time and it's hard but I'm sure you can do it! The only thing that is really, really important is: It all depends on you! Don' ever forget that! If you want to forget someone, then you will, there is no doubt! Even if it takes a long time, even if you have to be really strong...you will be! In that kind of situation we usually find out that we are a lot stronger than we give ourselves credit for! So believe that. Believe that, take a deep breath and move on! Your life's waiting for you, baby!

Friday, June 5, 2009

How would you know that your chatmate (someone you just met here on the net) is seriously into you?


Well its difficult.. but not impossible to know. main thing that i feel that over net we did not trust each other.. and often people did not in first meeting tell the truth about their age.. education and location etc.. and long distance relationship sound good but its very hard to maintain constant contact with some one with whom you are serious.. or you both serious.. .. because we all know what kind of conditions we have now in these days.. the best thing to know that whether he/she is serious .. one should take some time with him/her.. spend time on chating mailing.. and then we have cell phones.. in these days.. and then before reaching to a decision level one should be aware of his living style and culture and way of thinking .. and should compare all things with his chat mate.. because some time things look so beautiful and serious and important from distance but when we go to close to them.. then the real things open on us.. the things that we hide from each other during chating or on net.. so do not take any decision on base of some one words that he / she share with you on net.. if both have some thing special for each other then both plan to see each other and talk face to face if it is possible and then make a decision..
i did not say that all the people on net are not credible or they cheat or hide but , we should not blind trust some one.. and there are many cases that we read that two people meet on line and then they fall in love and now they are wife and husband and living happily.. but there are many cases that we read too that people met on line and then the cheat each and cross he limits under the blanket of love.. and now one is crying and blaming for his/ her broken heart and wounded feelnigs.. so thats life any thing can be possible.. trust yourself and love yourself first and then see things with open eyes.. otherwise there is a chance to lose the way .. to go forward..

Best of luck..

Regards

Bored while having a date...




Bored while having a date

I am bored”…

Going out on a date can be really exciting and nerve-racking at the same time. But it is truly an exciting moment. Having to meet a new person that possibly you might fall in love with and be with for a long, long time. But what if your date is really boring? It can be a disappointing experience. So what can you do if you’re bored? Bailing out on your date in the beginning of the night can be really rude and pretty obvious. Here are some ways on how to kill your boredom.

What to Do When You Get Bored While On a Date:

  1. Try to enjoy and eat the food.
  2. Order a cocktail and try to have fun drinking it.
  3. Observe the ambience of the place/ restaurant.
  4. Ask for the menu, and read each item one by one (silent reading of course).
  5. If your date is starting to notice that you’re getting bored. Look at him/her. In your head criticize his/her looks. Start with the face and then the clothes.
  6. Try to talk about something interesting. Something that might interest the two of you.
  7. If that still bores you, try asking him/her to dance.
  8. If he/she declined. Think of some reason or excuse to cut the date short.
  9. If you can’t think of something, go to the bathroom and continue to think of some reason to cut the date short.
  10. If you were able to come-up with something, tell your date about it. Now that you’ve successfully ended a boring date, have fun on your own.

I am Bored? Not anymore!