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Friday, June 5, 2009

How would you know that your chatmate (someone you just met here on the net) is seriously into you?


Well its difficult.. but not impossible to know. main thing that i feel that over net we did not trust each other.. and often people did not in first meeting tell the truth about their age.. education and location etc.. and long distance relationship sound good but its very hard to maintain constant contact with some one with whom you are serious.. or you both serious.. .. because we all know what kind of conditions we have now in these days.. the best thing to know that whether he/she is serious .. one should take some time with him/her.. spend time on chating mailing.. and then we have cell phones.. in these days.. and then before reaching to a decision level one should be aware of his living style and culture and way of thinking .. and should compare all things with his chat mate.. because some time things look so beautiful and serious and important from distance but when we go to close to them.. then the real things open on us.. the things that we hide from each other during chating or on net.. so do not take any decision on base of some one words that he / she share with you on net.. if both have some thing special for each other then both plan to see each other and talk face to face if it is possible and then make a decision..
i did not say that all the people on net are not credible or they cheat or hide but , we should not blind trust some one.. and there are many cases that we read that two people meet on line and then they fall in love and now they are wife and husband and living happily.. but there are many cases that we read too that people met on line and then the cheat each and cross he limits under the blanket of love.. and now one is crying and blaming for his/ her broken heart and wounded feelnigs.. so thats life any thing can be possible.. trust yourself and love yourself first and then see things with open eyes.. otherwise there is a chance to lose the way .. to go forward..

Best of luck..

Regards

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