"HALLOWEEN"PART 2!

So,Who wants to get party here?
NO ONE? haha...LOL

Maybe On NOv.1 I'll go visit my older brother in the cemetery,It's just a few blocks in our house.

I remember my brother died...My mother told me to stop touching my brother,but when my mother left,I kissed my dead brother on his cheeks...the last time we buried him,I didn't do anything...
Next my younger sister died,before they buried her,I gave her my toy...

But, I didn't cry...

Someone knows I love this Haliday...
But I'm also sad that we're not together now.
That day,I cried...

"HaPPy HallowEEn"

Yay! I love this holiday! but I can't feel the presence of the Halloween,you know why? Because I can't watch horror movies! No new horror movies!
BTW,Advanced Happy Halloween to everyone!I already greeted SHOTA,& RICCH-Chan! So I want to greet DERRICK here-Happy Halloween! I miss you very much! I Did my promised to you,HEHE^^Callie-Happy Halloween too!^^Thongling-Happy Halloween!Dennis-Happy Halloween,Oh yeah! He's also addict in facebook than me.Although we're not communicating each other now!Did I forgot someone?Hmm...(thinking)...5 secs...
Oh yeah,My best friend Lynn-Happy Halloween! I think it's time that we should forgive each other,Be happy always,LOL!=P
To EVERYONE-HAPPY...HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!
I just got on9 here,I forgot to update this.HAha...
I'm busy in facebook,LOL!

Events+Me+them+Him+Dot

Today is Shota's B-dae! We chatted for so long in FB,too bad ricch chan didn't join us because he was too late.
I realize something...I will never bother him again so that I woudn't remember the past...
I'm absent last monday & we are the next morning excercise this month of october.It sucks! & I got 0 for being absent last monday because I didn't perform the morning excercise.==
Last tuesday,I'm absent again because of the typhoon.haiz...Stupid weather!
I'm blaming myself for getting stupid grades...That sucks again.
Exam is near. And I'm not prepared yet.
I hate math & physics,It kills me!
I'm blaming myself for not being a talented guy and stupid genius.
Hope I'm still at the top 5 rank.
It sucks over and over again...
Goodluck too with your exams!
++++X+o+x+o++++

GRADES in skoul...& about stupid love...^^

I was at the top 5 rank in school! I wasn't happy of that.I mean I did my best,haiz...better luck up next time...Gambateh!!!
and if you're asking me about love,I don't know what to say.
Boys like other boys it means they're fuckin'gay!
Boys like both sex it means they're bisexuals!
whatelse?
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Loving someone who can't love the way you do makes you a fuckin'loser! It's true!
I mean why do you have to love someone if you can stay all by yourself...IMFAO!
Girls are single & they can sustain that but boys can't resist,How stupid!
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Derrick,
this juice is 4 U^^
Friends 4ever...

FACEBOOK^^

I'm addicted to FB...lawl! BUt I can't give my FB...it's for exclusive guys only, sorry for that.BTW...Try playing the rocklegends,It's cool anyway...Less on9 in FS...") I'm at FB now...

Can you fall in love with someone you've never met?

I think a lot of it is due to how people live nowadays. People are busy and often don't have the close ties to their community that was once common-place.

On-line dating and chatting is convienent. You can fit it inbetween school and work and talking on your cell. lol. Well, you get the idea.

I do think it's important to stay grounded in reality, though. I never got into on-line dating sites or anything like that - just chat and forums. However, I have friends who have; and they have this little mantra: After a short time, meet or stop talking. Don't waste your time or get too emotionally invested.

It happens countless times that folks can start to fall for the person that is mostly built up in their head - that's why it's good to get a check with reality as soon as possible. To make sure the person is who they are presenting themselves to be, and if there is any real chemistry.

That fantasy aspect can lead people to go half-way across the world and somehow believe that life, work, and regular relationship realities won't come into play. But it doesn't have to be like that. It IS real: two people with real lives and feelings. People can get hurt.

Feelings are feelings. I haven't met anyone on this forum, yet I genuinely care about the people here. It's weird, but it's true.

You just need to use common (or not so common) sense like in anything else. And take safety precautions.

Anyways, to the original query: I think you should go out on a few dates with different people, and/or find more time with your friends going out and having fun, meet new people, cut down your internet time with this guy, decide if you want to meet and if so make solid plans to do so (and figure out if this is even a possibility for you in your real life).
If there are no plans to meet: say good-bye so you can get over these feelings and focus back on yourself and what is going on around you.

Sorry for such a long post! I think this is a situation may folks find themselves in, and it's not that weird. It's a genuine q.

peace

Thanks100x "CALLIE"

Thanks! U've been seeing my blog when I'm updating!
U're my 1st special guest today! Here's your prize


BTW,Keep on featuring my blog!Thank you!

wow! I'm back...LOL...Blek...hahaha...XD

Ahem...It's been awhile I guess...
I don't use my 2 accs. in friendster.
It's not worth it!
I mean I have 4 accs. in friendster so I can't handle it anymore,I'm too busy for that.but anyways...my brother is going 2 have his 6th birthday! LOL...!!! I will sing again...hahahaha...XP -It's my fav.
See my blog! I've changed the 1st part..hehe...It's like an EMO!
oh yeah..Hmm...I don't miss anyone...haha! jokes...
Yay! I'm graduating...wooosh! I need 2 strive hard...see what I can get.
Peace 4 those who dislikes me & 2 those I made faught...haha...(fight)
=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=+=

My Grades in EXAM...

English-72 over 80
MAth-67 over 80
Music-58 over 60
science-68 over 80
All pass..*sigh*
I wish I could do more...
I'm very conscious about my grades...
Gambateh...ne~!

[Bi] "Derrick,Shota & My girl"

我想你
I miss my very kawaii(cute) bestfriend
Don't be mad at me if I can't communicate with you in chat
You still have your friends & ruru[HAHA-LOL]
But don't forget that I'm always here if you have a problem,ok?
If you're not satisfied then you can give me a punishment
I'll do whatever it takes
If you want me to edit ur pics I will,
If you want me 2 give u a hundred of comments I will,
If you suggest anything I will do it.
Just don't be mad at me...T.T
Wo ai ni means I love you right?
[HAHA] Take care always:)

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
[SHOTA]
Waiiii~:) I'm glad he's happy now!
WoooTTTT!~~

>[But still...I can be evil]
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[My girl]
Today,I'm w/ my "GF" ,HAiz...This day was so very hot!%^$%#^%&%&#&
But I'm happy talking,seeing & being together with her.
Even though I'm bored in their house.
(-_-) >That's the real thing!
We made our blog and...(&*&%^^%*&&()&*^&%()

Oh yeah, That's all!
If you really like someone!
Be brave & tell them!
Don't use someone else...Just to forget about HIM/HER.
HEHE..."A little advice"

"Gravitation"

I watched this movie over and over again,I bought this CD wen I was 15 yrs.old I think...This movie is very touching and I remember a guy or a person whom I cherish most before used to tell me this words "ONLY YOU"...

About my Old BFF "Shota"

Hmmm...I want him to read this but I guess he don't have his own blog,so I want everyone to read this.

I actually didn't expect that I would receive his comment in friendster.
I was shocked...I really miss that guy,LOL...Even if he's like that.
I know that something is bothering him,I want him also to be happy, but I can't do that because I'm not the person that will make him happy.I think he has a lover now but why isn't he happy? Maybe about his financial problems.
If you know my BFF "SHOTA"/"DC"/"KENT"-make him happy please if you CAN.
I'm only concerned about him.
Oh yeah thanks a lot by reading.
[HAHAHA]

Can't chat with everyone...

People asking me why I often can't open my MSN.
Well, that's because my MSN got damage,I don't know why...but it helps me a lot because I'm going to be busy these days...Because of exam & (secret),haha...LOL!!!
I wanna say sorry to derrick,can't chat w/ u only in FS...But I know u're less on9 in FS...

Chaco Desu! ..woohh...Kawaii^^

Cute! lah...haha...XXDD
So kawaii...deh...Japan lah...XP
like a guy but a girl...
hehe....^^

Chat until (1:57AM) U off 1st...XD

HAha...I chatted a close friend in FS,LOL...He is good in english & he's a malaysian...woah...sugoi!!! 19yrs old. he said he's sleepy den I laughed,
These are the chat ways...:
Aki says:
i will also off
riCch says:
so tat hv a healthy body
ok!!
Aki says:
ayoihh...
riCch says:
so
nite nite
Aki says:
hmm,...
kkk
nytx
oyasumi
riCch says:
o sumi nasai

Aki says:
if u'll off den I'll off 2
riCch says:
wa!
u wait 4 me

just now i m waiting u to off 1st
Aki says:
u off 1st
haha
riCch says:
u off 1st
i m approving those freind request
ok!!
this is the deal
we off together
Aki says:
dun wan lah
u off 1st


riCch says:
aiyo


Aki says:
i do dis 2 evry1
u off 1st
riCch says:
wat

u off 1st
Aki says:
im not going 2 off until u off 1st
riCch says:
ok i off
Aki says:
bb
riCch says:
off---------

off!!!!!!
hurry!
ok
Aki says:
wei?
riCch says:
i off
Aki says:
u 1st

Aki says:
bb
riCch says:
haiz
don miss me too much

See & he calls me NARU-chan! LOL...HAHAHA , a new name...

Dear Chaco by Derrick

Dear Chaco,Sorry...
Maybe i more busy recently...
Long time we no chat at msn..
although we dun chat always...
but my heart stil love u..
frenship 4ever...
dun forget me..

derrick

Waaahhh! Thanks!
I like it...
SO touching...
Unlike the others...

What happen to my B-day?...XD

Haha...Ok! My birthday last july.13,2009 is one of the most embarrassing moment it ever happened to me...I costs 4,ooo & yeah I made a party in school & me & my other friends went to mcdonald haha! I was with my friends & Ex. SO me & my ex went to the 2nd floor we run & then I fell down,Shit! I fucking slipped unto the floor...Err...I just fucking laughed! I didn't dare to talk in 5 mins...XD
If you didn't greet me I'm not also going to greet you...
Sorry to say that...
Hehe(Evil laugh)

I'm absent in school for 2 days...

Yeah...guess what? I'm having a headache,sore throat & high temperature...So I missed my other schedules in school, grrr...I hate it! yeah I know it gives me the creeps..My grades! Shit! I didn't realize that I was going to be Ill...God...I'm sorry for what I've done...pls,give me another chance! I hope my grades will be higher soon as I keep doing my best...

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Happy birthday Greetings!

Yeah! My Birthday is July.13,2009
These are the peoples who greeted me!
Check it out!
Ag off 16**Hanz**
callie
1 恨 愛 王 子
judith
Leah
❤小倩❤
Derrick
♥ Miriam
♪♬JAVYER
A. jAnInE
◕☆巨蟹座寂寞男孩_豪仔☆◕
ツ呆呆滴..ღ♥ㄨ
QuTiE_b@By_^~^_
Kellie
judy ann marie
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hwa^^
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R-Y-A-N
♥ xïïao xïи ♥
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Stellar
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M3iyi
meii ♥
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【ι‘m 密口儿_小恋】精灵
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nhe ying dyok

These days are suck! But It's still Amazing...!

How can I say that these days are amazing? Is it because the next following days?
I think it's 2 weeks be4 my birthday! Nothing special I just want to buy a new cup that's all. XD...It's kinda boring too 'cus I didn't talk to derrick last week and also this fuckin' week. ohh..damn! I kinda feel like I miss that guy! woosh!haha...XP...Hmm..I've been talking to Hanz...if I'm not of course busy.Hmm..TSK...I'm lazy 2 type many words now...Ohh...yeaH!? mIss me? haha...Just go to my Friendster... & I'll give u some fuckin' cake! OK? javascript:void(0)

Website or Fans 4 michael Jackson

http://www.michaeljackson.com/

Read THis!Haha! Lholx All new Fwends,Klassmeyts,LOvers & Grades...HahaX!

S***! Really Busy from Skool! Haha!!!S**** My Klassmeyts R reallleee BAd but fun pips! Dey just made our teacher Cry...Nyahaha! Lholx! Well..actually dat wasn't d 1st time..lholx...XD Den...I just met a new fwenshIp...Haha! Nice..Dudes..XD MR.Kyout...Is his Codename...Haha...Mich U everyday!!! Mr.Kyout! I dunno Y...XD! MuchhHH Lurve ,rouku...XD ...To Derrick: Oh yeah! Much U 2...HahaX!!!I promise 2 be happy lah,,,I will...evn if rouku is sad...I will still smile...XP...hMm..Wat else!? Hmf..Oh yeah..My B-day is coming..Damn! No party...Mother said...T.T
Hmm...Did I 4got sumthing?! Tell me?...Hmm...???That's Ol...Dudess...Much lUrVEee
rouKU...Xd...:)
Eh..Ehh...Ehh..2NE1....HAha...

Secondhand Serenade » I Hate This Song Lyrics

Speak with your tongue tied,
I know that you're tired
But I just want to know,
Where you want to go,
I may be sad, But I'm not weak,
This situation is bleak
And you puffy eyes never lie,
Your tears come from inside.

Until Sunday I'll be waiting for an answer
I guess that yesterday's not good enough for you,
You know that I hate this song,
You know that I hate this song
Because it was written for you

Drown your fears with me
I'm feeling real sorry
Your glossy eyes don't need
The sadness they have seen
But you're way too deep to swim
Back up again
But somehow I can't find
The moment you said goodbye

Until Sunday I'll be waiting for an answer
I guess that yesterday's not good enough for you,
You know that I hate this song,
You know that I hate this song
Because it was written for you

This is becoming a problem I'm hurting it's unfair
But somehow your words,
The way that I heard are haunting me,
You're under my skin
You're breaking in,
And the tasteless fights that filled our nights
Are starting to cave in,
You're under my skin
You're breaking in
And if Sundays what it takes to prove
I have nothing else to loose

Until Sunday I'll be waiting for an answer
I guess that yesturday's not good enough for you,
You know that I hate this song,
You know that I hate this song
Because it was written for you

Secondhand Serenade Stranger lyrics

Turn Around
Turn Around and fix your eye in my direction
So there is a connection
I can't speak
I can't make a sound to somehow capture your attention
I'm staring at perfection
Take a look at me so you can see
How nice you are

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
But all these thoughts are leaving you tonight
I'm broke and abandoned
You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

I'm confident
But I can't pretend I wasn't terrified to meet you
I knew you could see right through me
I saw my life flash right before my very eyes
And I knew just what we'd turn into
I was hoping that you could see
Take a look at me so you can see

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
But all these thoughts are leaving you tonight
I'm broke and abandoned
You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

I know that I can't make you stay
But I would give my final breathe to make you understand how nice you are
Understand how nice you are

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
But all these thoughts are leaving you tonight
I'm broke and abandoned
You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
You call me a stranger

How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Friend

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Step 1

Talk to your friend. Open communication is the best way to start. Tell your friend that it is important that the two of you don't get feelings for one another, because you want the friendship to last.
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Step 2

Agree that you will not become romantically involved with each other and/or fall for each other. It is best when both friends agree not to get involved. Otherwise, one friend may start liking the other romantically, not knowing that the other friend is not okay with these type of feelings developing.
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Step 3

Set parameters with the friendship. Agree what can and can't be expected of the other person. You might want to come to an understanding that the friendship will be limited to hanging out at open mic nights and jamming, or playing chess. You won't spend every evening together, for example. Setting parameters can help you from getting together all the time, which makes it easier for feelings to develop.
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Step 4

Set boundaries. Don't sit too close to each other when you go to the movies. Don't allow the friend to sleep over. Don't hold hands, even if it's just for fun.
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Step 5

Do not become intimate. If you do, you're just asking for trouble. The easiest way for some people to get feelings for someone is with intimacy (sex). This is a line you should never cross, even if you think you can both handle it.
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Step 6

Don't kiss. You may think that as long as you don't become intimate and have actual sex that you can avoid developing feelings for someone and falling in love with your friend. However, even a passionate kiss can trigger those feelings that you are trying to avoid.
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Step 7

If you do start to have feelings for your friend, take a few steps back. Put some distance in the relationship. Sometimes then you will be able to get the feelings to dissipate. If not, you may have to talk to your friend and figure out what to do. It might be that a blunt blow of reality from the friend reminding you that you are only friends and it will be no more can bring you back from Cloud 9.

I took this pictures early in the morning...:)

Hmm...Bright & half moon...Nothing really special about this day.
It's just that I'm really bored.It's better if you'll look into the dark sky with sparkling stars,isn't?

How to Forget About a Girl You Like

1. Stick with your decision! At this point you are comitting to do one thing only... leaving the possibility of a relationship behind. If you cannot fully commit to your decision you will continually be re-establishing emotional feelings (the cause of your thoughts). You must agree with this decision! If not, then you are not ready.
2. Limit your interaction with this person. Although you have feelings for this person, giving yourself time and distance away from this person will cause you to have less interactions and less thoughts. Giving yourself at least one week of minimal interaction is necessary but this varies from person to person. This WILL be difficult.
3. Find a replacement. Your thoughts must happen. You cannot simply take away thoughts and have a day without them filled with moments of you sitting in a deep daze. It is the brain's function to think and a thought can ONLY BE REPLACED! You need to find a new hobby to fill this new void. The best thing to do is to get out with some friends while obeying step 2. Friends also have full lives and when their interactions mix with yours, you find yourself listening and learning many new things and ideas.
4. Do something! Again, follow step 3. If you are in a room with only a chair you have nothing else to do but think. But if you're on the move you think about your actions, so do something.
5. Relax and try to have fun. If you picked an activity that is highly stressful, chances are that you are going to return to your "safe place" and recall your thoughts. Always remind yourself that you are moving forward and becoming happier.


TIPS:
* Give yourself plenty of time. It can be a very long period
* Remember that you are not alone. Many people have experienced similar emotions and have pulled through.
* If you were in a relationship with this person, do what you need to clear any images or objects that will remind you of this person. Pack them in a box, put them under your bed, hide them in a shoe box in your closet, or put them in the trash. Think of something creative.
* Do not tell anyone WHO you like. Never give names. Talking to people about your crush increases your chances of your crush hearing about it. This definitely breaks step 1. However, talking about your difficulties is always good but you don't want anyone to figure out who you are talking about. Just use the phase "this girl I know" instead of her name.
* If your crush has a boyfriend... get to know him. There is a good chance that you two will have something in common since you like the same girl. This can help a lot. Because when he opens up to you about his girlfriend you will listen. This helps two-fold because: 1) You create a stronger friendship with this new guy and 2) you get to vent and hear all your thoughts come into action. You may even be able to give him suggestions (if he is comfortable). In any manner, as long as you see her rarely, you complete all the steps.
* Its good to remember that you cannot see the future. Even if you broke step 1 and went for the girl there is a good chance that the relationship may never even work. At this point in time it is much better to keep your memories of your and her happiness as they are now. If things failed, you could have some miserable memories and it may just be better pretending that it would have been great. (Think about it) If the Woman you were once interested in marries another man and not you then have no further interaction with her even in a friendly way. Completely shut her out of your thoughts and move on with your life there will be another woman and eventually you will find happiness and have a meaningful relationship.
* Always be careful about what activities you choose to help distract yourself. Things like sports or crafts are always good. Try to find something with maximum interaction with other people. Conversation helps to distract you, as long as you stay away form the topic of your love interests, otherwise it is pointless. Sports like golf or tennis aren't very helpful - you spend too much time not talking, and it can allow your mind to start wondering.
* Try to think of it this way, this girl is sorta ruining your life. This happened to me, but then I got a replacement for this. I was a much happier person. Also if that doesn't work then think that the girl is a truck in your life and you are a person in front, what will you do to stay alive, get away from the truck, so to substitute it The girl is the truck and the you are the person, move away from her, be strong. You made the decision. Stick to your guns!
* For Catholics set up an appointment with your parish priest and discuss the issue with him just because he's a priest he was once a young man. And he went through some of the same things so he understands what it's like when relationships with women go wrong and he can give you advice. Or discuss it with a minister of your choice a rabbi once helped me when my childhood sweet heart decided another man was better than me.

WARNINGS:
* If you feel that you cannot do this on your own or are feeling very depressed call a friend at 1-800-784-2433 or 1-800-448-3000. Don't be scared! Call them up and just tell them "THIS SUCKS!" They like it! If you haven't had a random conversation with a stranger, this will be fun and will definitely fulfill step 4 and possibly save a life.
* Never resort to alcohol as a way to help ease the pain of rejection sure it may feel good in the short term but in the long run it can and will harm your health ,and lead to an abundance of problems it can even get you thrown into jail. Get professional help if necessary.

How To Forget Someone in 8 Steps

Step 1:

Cry out everything you have to cry about! When we get hurt, it's normal (and good) to cry. Don't ever think you're being weak for crying and don't feel embarrassed because of it! It's normal and it's good! When you cry, you let go of part of your anger and hurt so you can feel less heavy. You can lock yourself in a room, if you want to, and put on some sad music...but let yourself feel the pain and cry so you can let it go. The main thing here is: Get rid of the pain! Just let her go!

Step 2:

Get busy! When you're trying to get someone out of your head, you need to put other things inside of it. In other words...get busy! It doesn't matter how, you just need to get distracted. Go to a movie, watch a play, travel. It doesn't matter what are you going to do--the important thing is to find something to do. Find a hobby, find something you enjoy doing, something to keep your mind busy. If your mind is busy, it doesn't have time or space to think about the person you're trying to forget.

Step 3:

Spend some time with your friends. Friends are always great to have in this kind of situation! Friends can make you feel good about yourself and get you distracted very easily. They will certainly make you laugh and make you see that you're way more important than you think! The only warning is: Ask them not to talk about the person you're trying to forget. If they start bringing the topic up in every conversation, you won't be able to forget, and instead of making you laugh, they're going to make you cry. So be honest and ask them not to talk about it!

Step 4:

Avoid the person! Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person. When you're trying to forget someone and you two keep seeing each other, it gets hard to get over it. If you meet him/her somewhere, just be nice and kind, but find an excuse to go away as fast as you can! If you work or study with him/her and you can't avoid seeing him/her, just try not to look and not to talk too much. Just be gentle and keep busy all the time so you won't have excuses to look at him/her or to chat.

Step 5:

Go out and see some different faces! Being at home gives you more time to think about it, which makes the process even more difficult. So even if you're not feeling excited or you're in a bad mood, just put on your best clothes, best shoes, best smile, call some friends and go somewhere nice where you can dance, drink, listen to some music. And the most important: See some different faces! When you go out, you notice that the person you're trying to forget is not the only one who's got a perfect smile and an amazing voice...thank god, there are other interesting people around the world, too!

Step 6:

Avoid every kind of romantic thing! If you're trying to forget someone, you'd better not watch romantic movies or listen to romantic songs...it makes you feel bad and you will certainly remember the person you're trying to get rid of. It doesn't matter if it's a song you love or if it's playing on the radio...just change the station or do something else! Put on some happy songs, dancing songs, watch some comedies, terror movies, whatever...you just need to avoid the romantic things for now!

Step 7:

Take good care of yourself. Women tend to run for some kind of self-destruction when they're hurt. If we break up our perfect relationship, then we have no reason to get our nails done anymore and the only thing that gives us comfort is chocolate and sugar. That way, the only thing we do is to become less attractive and lessen our self-confidence. So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot, get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can feel more pretty and confident!

Step 8:

Accept the process! You can be really strong and it's still going to hurt. The process takes time and you have to accept that! You can't hope to forget in 2 days someone you loved for 2 years...and you can't pretend to be strong if you feel like crying. Just face your pain and accept that it's not easy and it's going to take some time. When you're patient with yourself and your situation, things tend to get easier...

Well, of course, forgetting someone is not easy to do nor is it easily explained in just 8 steps. But there are some things that make the process a lot smoother. As I said, it takes time and it's hard but I'm sure you can do it! The only thing that is really, really important is: It all depends on you! Don' ever forget that! If you want to forget someone, then you will, there is no doubt! Even if it takes a long time, even if you have to be really strong...you will be! In that kind of situation we usually find out that we are a lot stronger than we give ourselves credit for! So believe that. Believe that, take a deep breath and move on! Your life's waiting for you, baby!

How would you know that your chatmate (someone you just met here on the net) is seriously into you?

Well its difficult.. but not impossible to know. main thing that i feel that over net we did not trust each other.. and often people did not in first meeting tell the truth about their age.. education and location etc.. and long distance relationship sound good but its very hard to maintain constant contact with some one with whom you are serious.. or you both serious.. .. because we all know what kind of conditions we have now in these days.. the best thing to know that whether he/she is serious .. one should take some time with him/her.. spend time on chating mailing.. and then we have cell phones.. in these days.. and then before reaching to a decision level one should be aware of his living style and culture and way of thinking .. and should compare all things with his chat mate.. because some time things look so beautiful and serious and important from distance but when we go to close to them.. then the real things open on us.. the things that we hide from each other during chating or on net.. so do not take any decision on base of some one words that he / she share with you on net.. if both have some thing special for each other then both plan to see each other and talk face to face if it is possible and then make a decision..
i did not say that all the people on net are not credible or they cheat or hide but , we should not blind trust some one.. and there are many cases that we read that two people meet on line and then they fall in love and now they are wife and husband and living happily.. but there are many cases that we read too that people met on line and then the cheat each and cross he limits under the blanket of love.. and now one is crying and blaming for his/ her broken heart and wounded feelnigs.. so thats life any thing can be possible.. trust yourself and love yourself first and then see things with open eyes.. otherwise there is a chance to lose the way .. to go forward..

Best of luck..

Regards

Bored while having a date...

Bored while having a date “I am bored”… Going out on a date can be really exciting and nerve-racking at the same time. But it is truly an exciting moment. Having to meet a new person that possibly you might fall in love with and be with for a long, long time. But what if your date is really boring? It can be a disappointing experience. So what can you do if you’re bored? Bailing out on your date in the beginning of the night can be really rude and pretty obvious. Here are some ways on how to kill your boredom. What to Do When You Get Bored While On a Date: Try to enjoy and eat the food. Order a cocktail and try to have fun drinking it. Observe the ambience of the place/ restaurant. Ask for the menu, and read each item one by one (silent reading of course). If your date is starting to notice that you’re getting bored. Look at him/her. In your head criticize his/her looks. Start with the face and then the clothes. Try to talk about something interesting. Something that might interest the two of you. If that still bores you, try asking him/her to dance. If he/she declined. Think of some reason or excuse to cut the date short. If you can’t think of something, go to the bathroom and continue to think of some reason to cut the date short. If you were able to come-up with something, tell your date about it. Now that you’ve successfully ended a boring date, have fun on your own. I am Bored? Not anymore!

64 Ways to Say "I Love You":

1. Don't compare them to anyone.
2. Be courteous at all times.
3. Embrace the present moments without fear or guilt.
4. Live by the Golden Rule (Do unto others as you would have them do unto you).
5. Give your full attention when talking.
6. Become their biggest fan and cheerleader!
7. Toast each other over breakfast or dinner to say I love you.
8. Tell them how they bring love to your life.
9. Laugh about kids quotes on love or events.
10. Talk about your day during mealtimes.
11. Read books aloud together.
12. Say you're sorry.
13. Recall good and bad memories.
14. Let go of the past to say I love you.
15. Do nothing together.
16. Encourage health in all its forms.
17. Trust your partner enough to cry together.
18. Act silly together.
19. Be lavish in praise.
20. Ask questions about opinions, feelings, thoughts.
21. To say I love you, forget about labels.
22. Encourage adventures and risks!
23. Show your joy when they come home.
24. Bake cookies.
25. Leave stress at work to say I love you.
26. Use flannel sheets in the winter.
27. Solve problems together - such as crosswords or Suduku.
28. Show your gratitude for them.
29. Be a good sounding board.
30. To say I love you, take pride in them -- and show it.
31. Compliment them in front of others.
32. Spend time with them.
33. Listen.
34. Ask for hugs and kisses.
35. Take vacations together.
36. Tell the truth to say I love you.
37. Use pet names to say I love you.
38. Practice self-acceptance.
39. Hunt for treasure together.
40. Be interested in their interests.
41. To say I love you, let go of jealousy.
42. Accept their weaknesses and flaws.
43. Ditch work or responsibilities to play with them.
44. Be yourself.
45. Share chocolates, ice cream sundaes, milkshakes.
46. To say I love you, ignore slights.
47. Pray or meditate together.
48. Practice forgiveness.
49. Watch classic movies together.
50. Leave notes or send letters.
51. To say I love you, buy a "for no reason at all" gift.
52. Don't gossip or judge.
53. Give the benefit of the doubt to say I love you.
54. Give space when they're in a bad or sad mood.
55. Learn something new together.
56. Go dancing.
57. Keep your promises to say I love you.
58. Make them laugh.
59. Consider their feelings.
60. Learn ways to rekindle the romance.
61. Hide a treat in their lunch.
62. To say I love you, make home a fun place to be.
63. Let them make their own decisions.
64. Say what you mean when you say I love you. Say why.

Saying I love you takes work and making your relationship stronger does take work. It's hard to be honest, and it's hard to accept the consequences of your honesty and authenticity. It takes time, energy, and commitment to stay connected through all the problems that life and people bring. It can be painful, aggravating, and scary to stick it out through all the ups and downs....but the alternative is worse.

"How to be romantic?"

Romance is a way to demonstrate your love. Being romantic often gives an idealistic sheen to your relationship that some people dream about. If your relationship seems to be lacking something, try these steps to be romantic and add some more loving to your relationship.

1. Be creative to personalize the gesture. One of the most effective tools for romance is to truly know your partner. Find out what he or she likes and wants. The more you know, the more you can personalize your romance. Red roses on Valentines Day might be traditional but they are rarely romantic, especially if you buy the same red roses every year. Instead, try to personalize the gesture, and not just for a holiday.
2. Make time to be alone. Romance needs couple time away from the daily routine and pressures. It is possible to be romantic in a house full of kids but it takes more work. Sometimes, you just need to get out of the house and spend time alone talking and touching each other.
3. Surprise your love. If she already knows you love her, what more is there to romance, you might ask? You can be romantic every day if you want. Try to surprise the person you love by bringing home her favorite dessert, offering to cook dinner one night when she is tired or buying her a massage at the spa to celebrate a completed project at work. Romance is hard to plan, so be spontaneous and surprise the person in your life.

4.Consider a little competition. Who is the most romantic person in your relationship?
Is it you or your spouse? If you need to spark the romance, try a little competition. Come up with gifts and plans to be together and compete to see who has the better idea. Don’t let the competition get carried away but remember a little competition can be healthy and can get you both motivated to be more romantic.

5.Plan an adventure. For some, romance is about getting away from the day to day in order to do something daring. Offer your partner the chance to have an adventure together. Plan a hike or rafting vacation if you both enjoy the outdoors. Head to a racetrack or indoor fun park if that is more your speed. Just be sure to have your adventure together doing something you both enjoy.

6.Be sincere. If you do not feel the romance, don’t try to fake it. Insincerity is more heartbreaking than disinterest. Be fair to the person in your life by being sincere in your romance. Don’t do things you don’t feel just because you think you are supposed to.

How to Attract the Guy You Have a Crush On

1.Make sure they know who you are.
2.Find Common Ground
3.Befriend him.
4.Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable.
5.Try to Keep Clean.
6.Be yourself.
7.Be clear on your intentions.

Tips:
1.Don't be easy. Not impressive, and it'll give you a bad reputation, try to be yourself and be open towards your feelings.
2.If you are going to make a joke, make sure it's funny and not cheesy. Try to make it on a subject he will be interested in and he will laugh at.
3.If you make a lame joke and he laughs, he is probably interested in you. No one who is interested in someone wants to risk insulting them.
4.Laugh at his jokes, but don't overdo it; no one likes a gigling ninnie. When you laugh he will look at you, so don't try and seem fake or too flirty.
5.Be friendly! Remember to be positive and ask him simple questions like how he's doing, and take an interest in what he says.
6.When he makes a joke, don't slap him, just lightly touch his arm when you laugh. Depending on the guy, he will probably get closer to you.
7.Slutiness is not empowering. As mentioned above, wear clothes that make you comfortable, not clothes that your momma would slap you upside the head for.
8.Try to make eye contact. If you're ultra shy, it's okay, but eye contact shows that you are feeling very open and comfortable. Staring at someone, however, connotates that you are a stalker.
9.Try not to flirt with other guys around him. Jealousy does not a good feeling make. It might lower his self esteem and interest in you depending on the guy. But then again, other guys might try to meet the challenge; overall, though, making someone jealous isn't a good thing.
10.Send him a friend request on Facebook or Myspace. Trust me, this might work. I added my crush, and now we talk for hours.
11.Social networking sites like Facebook are great, because you have longer to think about what you say, and if you don't like what you've written, you can type something else.

How to Attract Girls?

1.) GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS
2.) GET SELF-CONFIDENCE
3.) POSITIVE OUTLOOK
4.) PRACTICE PERSONAL HYGIENE

How to Be Cool?

Steps
Act like you do not care what others think of you.
Be aware of how others will perceive you.
Present yourself in a positive way.
Find real friends.
Don't be afraid to be different.
Speak up.
Learn how to laugh at yourself.
Write a list of all of the goals you are aiming for.
Take a deep breath.
Be friendly, but not excessively eager.
Use appropriate language.
Be a good conversationalist.
Dress how you want.
Refrain from using too many colloquialisms.

TIPS ON BEING A RESPONSIBLE HOST

If you're hosting a party, you certainly want to be a responsible host. This means paying attention to many details, and insuring that all goes according to your plans. Here are several suggestions:
Remember how important it is to plan things carefully!
Alcohol, if served, should not be a major focus of the event. Consider a theme party; play non-drinking games.
Make sure that you know the facts about alcohol about drinking and driving about your liabilities as a host if one of your guests gets injured at your party (or after your party) about dealing with drunk individuals. There's lots to know -ask if you don't know!
Keep an eye on your guests - to insure that they're having a good time, and to be sure that no behavior gets out of control.
It you're serving an alcoholic punch, use non-carbonated beverages in it; this helps slow the absorption rate of alcohol.
It you're serving alcohol, be sure to serve attractive non-alcoholic alternative beverages. Non-alcoholic punch recipes are availble at the Drug Education Center.
Serve some tasty food - this doesn't have to expensive! This helps slow the absorption rate of the alcohol.
Respect guests who don't want to drink, or have decided to slow down or stop for the evening.
Measure your drinks - this keeps guests' behavior in line, and limits the amount of your alcohol that is consumed!
Stay sober yourself - you never know when you'll have to be in charge of dealing with an emergency!
Serve an alternative beverage such as coffee an hour or so before the party ends. Realize that this does not help someone sober up, but it does allow for time to pass before they leave.
Take special note of your guests who will be driving home. Make sure that they stay sober enough to drive safely-, encourage them to stop drinking early.
When it's time to leave, be sure that the drivers can drive safely. If not, find someone else to drive, play the game "find the car keys" with them, call a taxi, or find them a place to stay. You certainly don't want to have to wonder whether or not they made it home OK!
Clean up the area where the party was held -- outside the facility is very important!
You can certainly think of more tips from your experience - share these with your friends, and ask them for their suggestions as you plan your party!